In our experience it's usually a local net work router causing the problem, rather than an iptables firewall. Try the following with csf enabled and csf disabled:
rst.x3827.rs.dns-oarc.net.
rst.x3837.x3827.rs.dns-oarc.net.
rst.x3843.x3837.x3827.rs.dns-oarc.net.
"85.13.195.235 sent EDNS buffer size 4096"
"85.13.195.235 DNS reply size limit is at least 3843 bytes"